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Music was the inspriation for this styled shoot.  Lot of black and white were used and to offset that with a soft pretty  pink. Keeping it more upscale than rock and roll by using brass ornaments and a lot of candles. Many aspects of music such as vinyl records, sheet music, concert tickets, etc. were incorporated. It is fun and whimsical, while still being elegant and classic.

wedding cake, cake table

wedding cake, cake table

wedding cake, cake table

Photographer: Eisenhower Photography

Coordinator: Annemarie Donaker Weddings & Events

Venue: The Pannikin Building

Florist: Kendra’s Floral Design

Rentals: APR Boutique Event Rentals

Decor Rentals: Enticing Tables

Dessert/Cake: Elegance on Display

Favors: Stamped at the Sea

Hair & Make Up: Peretti Hill Glam Squad

Gown: Here Comes the Bride

Menswear: Friar Tux Shop

Models: Sarah & Matt




SD’s Music Trends
By: Kristen Castillo

Making your wedding playlist can be a lot of fun! From sentimental first dance songs to country hits and party jams to your favorite club tracks, the music possibilities seem endless.

As San Diego DJs explain to San Diego Style Weddings, the major theme these days is anything goes. Hope you’re ready to dance!

Fresh Beats. “Music is getting fresher,” says Jerry Beck of Beck’s Entertainment & DJ Service, who details how couples in their 20’s and early 30’s are in touch with pop culture and want the newest music at their event.
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In the Club
“The last hour or so of the night, the younger guests and family members want to hear more hip hop like Fetty Wap, The Weeknd and future mixed with producers like Diplo of Major Lazer, Dj Snake and Chainsmokers,” says Mike Beltran, Vice President of SGM Events, explaining young professionals getting married want a “club vibe once the older folks start to leave.”

Inspiration. Getting inspired is easier now than ever. Pinterest, blogs and podcasts allow couples to see playlists and get ideas from what other couples have done.

“Today’s couples have better access to resources of inspiration,” says DJ Frank Pompeo. “They get more exposure to a wider variety of music.”

Variety. “I’m seeing such a variety of music, especially a lot of Latin and festive, upbeat music,” says Lady DJ Merrilyn of Artistic Productions, citing popularity of artists like Pitbull, Beyonce and Rihanna.

Feeling It
“DJs play songs that invoke emotion and feeling,” says Beck, encouraging couples to choose music that’s personal to them.

Wireless App Uplights
Battery operated uplights “are so clutch and so complementary at every single venue,” says Beltran.

The DJ can set a palette mixer on his or her phone to change the lighting on the spot. “You can control the lights,” says Beltran. “Colored lights change the mood.”

Making a Request List
The right DJ will read the crowd and play what works at an individual moment but they also want to know what music you love. “It all starts with a request list,” says Beck. “It’s what the couple thinks is good music.”

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Party Time
Lady DJ Merrilyn says couples and guests are ready to party. “I can play the Twist at every wedding,” she says, noting LMFAO’s “Sexy and I Know It” and “Party Rock” are also still very popular party tracks.

Improved Access
Couples are looking beyond Top 40 radio. If they love an indie band or a folk singer, it’s not a problem to play those tunes during the celebration.

Nowadays with better access to all kinds of music, it’s easy for DJs to play niche artists and songs without much fuss. “I am seeing more selections from independent and lesser-known artists,” says Pompeo. “This gives couples a chance to express their unique taste and style.”

Country is King
Pop music and R&B/Hip-hop are popular but guess what? “Country music is also big because often times the lyrical subject matter is so fitting for the occasion,” says Pompeo.

Plus, since so many country artists, like Taylor Swift for example, are crossover artists, the appeal of country is on the rise.


Line Up!
Line dances are still trendy too. “They’re as strong and popular as ever,” explains Lady DJ Merrilyn, who says the “Cha Cha Slide” and “Cupid Shuffle” are perfect for getting people moving. “People who are not dancing will get out on the dance floor as part of a group to participate.

Looking and Booking the BEST Wedding Bands
By: Bob Brichmann

Experiencing live music provides such an adrenaline rush. Of course, playing it…totally listening to it. The energy of live music at a wedding is incomparable. Whether it’s for a ceremony or the heart of the party, the pulse of live music and its affect on your once-in-a-lifetime affair is memorable.
There’s the musicianship, the showmanship, the warmth and vibe of a live musician giving it their all. Whether it’s a ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner hour or the down and dirty party, a live band can take your event to a very memorable place.

Eisenhower Photography
“Style-wise, we are genius at reading in the moment. Reading the pulse of the crowd. We can play the older standards and as the night gets older, the music gets younger,” shares Kimmy Terrell from the Sensation Showband.
A key element to some of the exciting, popular, local wedding bands is their ability to not only bring it musically, but to be able to help emcee and orchestrate the flow of the night. They can interact very seamlessly with the other professionals involved with the night, help with announcements and make the  party happen.
A common thread shared by bands is their cohesiveness as a unit. What that translates to you, the bride, is that they are calm, cool, know their craft and the objective for the evening.
“Every individual needs to be touched the right way…touched by the experience of the evening. Fully engaging the audience leads to such great memories. We’ll even pull the bride or key guests on to the stage to sing along with the band,” explains Tiana Hartsten from the Republic of Music.

Hulse Photography

Bands can mix and match their ensembles to easily handle the various parts to a wedding day. Wedding ceremonies may call for a soloist, a guitarist or pianist or even a string trio. A cocktail hour may do the same with a slight twist on the music stylings. For the reception, a full size band may step in to provide a huge variety of music and fun. Top bands can vary their ensemble based on your budget, your tastes, the scope of the event and even the size of the venue.
When searching for live music, be sure and ask what they can provide for the overall event. Many can handle staging, lighting, party pumping dancers….making it a “turn-key” evening where they handle it all…again, seamlessly for you.
“We’re a 20 piece band that provides a contemporary and fresh mix of music. Our Big Band Bundle says go big or your guests will go home! But we’re not your grandpa’s big band. Every bride has a separate set of fingerprints and we mix and match accordingly to their discerning tastes,” offers bandleader, drummer & talent agent Bill Dutton from The Rockin Jazz Band.
Bands can learn new songs (with notice). They can respect your tastes from a list provided ahead of time and ensure they don’t play those unique songs you “hate.” The quality San Diego based wedding bands pride themselves on replicating music as you are used to hearing it. The key is the attention to detail and musicianship.
Many bands can mix and match the number of musicians. Can you afford the full band of 25 or do you want to scale it down to a combo of five? They can either work in tandem with a DJ for band breaks or provide a prerecorded break option.
“We always keep it high energy. Whether it’s a five piece or a 15 piece group. We can bring in extra musicians for a band break. We emcee and keep things flowing and lively. We can take it to a superstar status,” states Andy Salmonsen, owner of the band NRG.

Bob Hoffman Photography & Video

There is a trend to keep it live but dial it down a notch, especially when it comes to the early part of the evening – cocktails and dinner. Perhaps you’ve seen a live solo musician at a local club or bar. Maybe you are into that Jason Mraz meets Michael Bublé meets Bob Marley retro vibe. There are so many tastes that brides can accent their special day with musically.
We all have different tastes in music. For a wedding, one might respect the family and older guests with a vibe that is a bit more nostalgic early on.
“Singing, performing…it’s a one-time experience and event. That’s what makes it memorable for everyone attending. Give people the right ambiance and you create an excitement. It’s unique and unforgettable,” says Ryan Hiller, owner of So-Cal Wedding Music.

Bob Hoffman Photography & Video
Another key aspect to the truly professional bands are their ability to interact with not just the crowd, but the other professionals – coordinator, banquet captain, photographer, officiant…perhaps a DJ. It’s a team effort to make an event an overall success.
“As a band, our foundation is that of a family. We don’t have turnover. We take pride in what we do and bring it for every event. Costume changes, music mash-ups…it’s a show,” adds Terrell.
Your interaction with your band is a process – just like with all of the other wedding vendors. You will sit down with them, email them or Skype with them prior to the wedding to clearly map out the event and their role. They will defer to your tastes, but offer many suggestions on how to make things flow smoothly based on their vast experience. That’s why you hire an established band.
The bandleader will know ahead of time those “torch” songs not to play or songs that may remind you of past bad memories. They actually encourage you to be specific with your music requests.
“It’s generally all about the bride and groom and their party. Love, party songs, songs throughout the ages…again, a fresh contemporary mix of standards and new songs,” says Dutton.
The price is higher than a DJ for a good, quality band, but the intensity, party excitement and showmanship is worth the investment. With all due respect to some of the other elements involved with the wedding…..your friends, family, guests and you…will always remember the event. Live music brings the party!